"For I know the plans I have for you" declares the Lord,
"plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you
hope and a future. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.
Jeremiah 29: 11-13

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Jan 2011: 18Mnths + 5Mnths = 2 busy boys

We celebrated Samuel's 18-month and Michael's 5-month adoption anniversaries in January.
When we started our adoption process of Michael, people were concerned that Samuel would not do well with a younger brother who would be "pushing his (Samuel's) limits".
But what an amazing bond these two little ones have, even with the normal healthy sibling rivalry.

A "love you hug" from Samuel. Michael took some time to get use to this hugging thing - but now he loves it.



I love the way they get dirty together. Michael is definitely more adventurous than Samuel which is great as Samuel learns best through following an example.



Samuel & Daddy on his adoption anniversary day, 17 January.

A somewhat sleep deprived Mommy & Samuel on his adoption anniversary.



2 Clean boys ready for bed - although I'm sure Michael had other ideas :)

This photo taken of Michael on his adoption anniversary, 19 January, shows the independent, self assured little boy that he is. His best toys remain a ball, any ball :)

Both boys love music, especially the African drums and Samuel's first love -a guitar. Here they are dancing to a Phil Collins DVD, Samuel's dance moves being "tweaked" by his brother.
To me they always look super cute in their pajamas.

This started off as a fight for control of the bike, then they realised they could both fit on it, but still not the joy that Mommy wanted to see when it comes to sharing.

Day 2 of "sharing transport" was more of a joyous occasion. They helped each other on & off and even waved as they "hit the road".

Then Michael discovered Samuel's legs are longer and therefor he should be doing all the work. Michael was laughing all the time - he had the rest of us in stitches.
Since Michael started walking, this is a regular sight. Two brothers on their way to cause trouble / investigate something new. Here they are patrolling the back garden for a tortoise!

Sometime last year we had 2 tortoises move into our garden. The boys love to go looking for them in the garden. The day before this photo was taken the tortoise was cruising the back garden. Michael is showing Daddy where it was last seen and calling the tortoise to come out.

I love this photo of the two boys. Samuel loves on Michael at unexpected times - he just hugs him & kisses him on the top of his head, signing brother & me :)

When God brought these two little boys into our family, He blessed us way beyond what we deserve, ever. I almost can not imagine our lives without them. I don't know what the future holds for them (or any of our girls for that matter), but what I do know is that they are loved beyond words, they have the Father's loving hand of protection over them and He has a plan and a purpose for each of our 5 children.

My prayer for 2011 is that families would open their hearts and homes for children in need; that we will be able to make a difference. That we would love unconditionally, just like Jesus.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Belated December 2010

Our holidays started rather "shaky" with Samuel having his adenoids removed (to help with his breathing and sleep apnea) and grommets inserted (to sort out some hearing problems) on day 2 after arrival. Although his speech is improving daily, we are still struggling with his disturbed sleep pattern at night :( Samuel did well during the procedure, Mommy not so good - especially since George was still in Zimbabwe and the girls spent a day out with Gretch. I get way to emotional when it comes to our children. The same day of the procedure, we also had Samuel's heart sonar & EEG done which showed no irregularities of major concern - Praise God!


The rest of the holidays were spent trying to sort out the rest of our things that still needed unpacking and catching up with family and friends. Oh and of course doing some "small-small" shopping - the boys did grow quite a bit and well, girls will be girls :) and George will always love an electronics store :)


Samuel & Daddy having fun with a shop assistant's "accessories", whilst the girls shop.

Cousin Theo & Michael trying out a new red hat - still in the same shop :)


Summer means sharing watermelon with Oupa.

It also means lots of cuddles from Ouma.

Ouma, Oupa and all the grandchildren- yep they're a busy bunch :)

The girls bought the boys an inflatable barnyard for Christmas. It kept them entertained for hours, they loved hiding in the barn.

Yes, Mommy loved it a lot too. It's amazing what you can get into a suitcase if you want too. It is currently in our lounge - now an indoor play area.

Then there is our 2 precious bikers - thanks Oupa & Ouma.

Michael trying out his new serious biker face.

Theo has a very place in our hearts and this was the first holiday that Samuel really interacted with him. Both boys can point him out on a photo and say his name. Since he lives in the UK and we only see him once a year, it was a special time. He even did a day of baby sitting the boys, with Ouma's help of course, whilst the girls & I were out.

25 December 2010 - full house

At the beginning of 2010 we knew that this was going to be a year of adjustment, stretching, learning, growing as we started Michael's adoption process.

The year was not always easy and some days were tougher than other, yet we would do it again - it was so worth it!!!!!

God provided each day exactly what was needed!

We serve an awezim God!